Safety

Date with confidence, not guesswork.

Meeting someone new should feel exciting, not stressful. These habits help keep first chats and first dates feeling good.

Online Safety

Protect yourself while chatting.

The seoulmate team reviews reports, monitors risk signals, and keeps improving tools that help people date with more confidence.

01

Never Send Money

  • No transfers.
  • No crypto payments.
  • No investment requests.
  • No gift cards or vouchers.
  • Report any money request immediately.
Couple sitting together at dusk with city lights

02

Protect Personal Information

  • Do not share your home address.
  • Do not share your work location.
  • Do not share your daily routine.
  • Do not share financial details.
  • Do not share children's personal information.
Couple walking hand in hand down a city street

03

Stay on seoulmate

  • Keep chats inside the app at first.
  • Be cautious when someone pushes to move off-platform.
  • Avoid sharing personal contact info too early.
  • Use video calls to verify identity when needed.
  • Report accounts that pressure you to leave the app quickly.
Couple standing close outdoors

04

Watch for Red Flags

  • Refuses video calls.
  • Avoids meeting in person.
  • Rushes intimacy.
  • Claims to be stuck overseas.
  • Asks for financial help.
Two women chatting over drinks in a cafe

Meeting In Person

Plan first meetings with care.

01

Take Your Time

  • Don't rush into meeting.
  • Ask clear questions first.
  • Do a video call before meeting if needed.
  • Confirm basic details before meeting.
  • Trust your instincts.
Friends gathered around a dinner table

02

Meet in Public

  • Choose a busy public place.
  • Prefer daytime or early evening.
  • Do not meet at home on a first date.
  • Stay where staff and other people are nearby.
  • Share the location with someone you trust.
Couple riding bikes through the city

03

Tell Someone You Trust

  • Share where you're going.
  • Share who you're meeting.
  • Share when you'll be back.
  • Set a check-in time.
  • Keep your phone charged.
Couple sitting together by the water

04

Control Your Transportation

  • Arrive on your own.
  • Leave on your own terms.
  • Keep a backup transportation plan.
  • Avoid sharing your home address.
  • Leave early if you feel uncomfortable.
Couple walking hand in hand along a street

05

Know Your Limits

  • Alcohol and drugs affect judgment.
  • Never feel pressured to drink or use substances.
  • Keep your drink in sight.
  • Do not leave belongings unattended.
  • Maintain clear boundaries.
Couple posing near a modern building

06

If You Feel Unsafe, Leave

  • Ending a date early is okay.
  • Ask venue staff for help if needed.
  • Call a trusted contact.
  • Move to a safe public area.
  • Report concerning behavior in-app.
Three friends relaxing by the waterfront at night

Reporting & Support

See something wrong?

Report directly in-app.

Our team reviews quickly and confidentially.

If you feel harmed, prioritize your well-being first. We are here to support you.

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